Spawning from https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/pull/18871
[This change](6ce2f3e59d)
was originally used to fix CPU time going backwards when we `daemonize`.
While, we don't seem to run into this problem on `develop`, I still
think this is a good change to make. We don't need background tasks
running on a process that will soon be forcefully exited and where the
reactor isn't even running yet. We now kick off the background tasks
(`run_as_background_process`) after we have forked the process and
started the reactor.
Also as simple note, we don't need background tasks running in both halves of a fork.
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