This is particularly a problem in a state reset scenario where the membership
might change without a corresponding event.
This PR is targeting a scenario where a state reset happens which causes
room membership to change. Previously, the cache would just hold onto
stale data and now we properly bust the cache in this scenario.
We have a few tests for these scenarios which you can see are now fixed
because we can remove the `FIXME` where we were previously manually
busting the cache in the test itself.
This is a general Synapse thing so by it's nature it helps out Sliding
Sync.
Fix https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/issues/17368
Prerequisite for https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/issues/17929
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Match when are busting `_curr_state_delta_stream_cache`
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