add "reject quotes" toggle at user and instance level

+ improve, cleanup, and de-duplicate quote resolution
+ add warning message when quote cannot be loaded
+ add "process error" framework to display warnings when a note cannot be correctly loaded from another instance

packages/backend/src/core/entities/InstanceEntityService.ts

@@ -60,6 +60,7 @@ export class InstanceEntityService {
 			latestRequestReceivedAt: instance.latestRequestReceivedAt ? instance.latestRequestReceivedAt.toISOString() : null,
 			isNSFW: instance.isNSFW,
 			rejectReports: instance.rejectReports,
+			rejectQuotes: instance.rejectQuotes,
 			moderationNote: iAmModerator ? instance.moderationNote : null,
 		};
 	}

packages/backend/src/core/entities/NoteEntityService.ts

@@ -490,6 +490,7 @@ export class NoteEntityService implements OnModuleInit {
 
 			...(opts.detail ? {
 				clippedCount: note.clippedCount,
+				processErrors: note.processErrors,
 
 				reply: note.replyId ? this.pack(note.reply ?? note.replyId, me, {
 					detail: false,

packages/backend/src/core/entities/UserEntityService.ts

@@ -674,6 +674,7 @@ export class UserEntityService implements OnModuleInit {
 				securityKeys: profile!.twoFactorEnabled
 					? this.userSecurityKeysRepository.countBy({ userId: user.id }).then(result => result >= 1)
 					: false,
+				rejectQuotes: user.rejectQuotes,
 			} : {}),
 
 			...(isDetailed && isMe ? {