add "reject quotes" toggle at user and instance level

+ improve, cleanup, and de-duplicate quote resolution
+ add warning message when quote cannot be loaded
+ add "process error" framework to display warnings when a note cannot be correctly loaded from another instance

packages/backend/migration/1739671847942-add_instance_rejectQuotes.js

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+export class AddInstanceRejectQuotes1739671847942 {
+	name = 'AddInstanceRejectQuotes1739671847942'
+
+	async up(queryRunner) {
+		await queryRunner.query(`ALTER TABLE "instance" ADD "rejectQuotes" boolean NOT NULL DEFAULT false`);
+	}
+
+	async down(queryRunner) {
+		await queryRunner.query(`ALTER TABLE "instance" DROP COLUMN "rejectQuotes"`);
+	}
+}